Why Fundraising is Important to our Mission

Keriann Ginter • August 7, 2025

At Friends of Caroline, we often say that no one walks alone—and I believe that with my whole heart. Each day, I have the privilege of witnessing how deeply our mission touches the lives of patients, families, and caregivers throughout the Lowcountry. But behind every comforting visit, every grief counseling session, and every moment of support is something just as important: you—our generous and compassionate community.


As Director of Development, I’m often asked why fundraising is so important. The answer is simple: it’s the foundation that allows us to serve.


Unlike many healthcare providers, Friends of Caroline is not fully reimbursed by insurance or government programs for much of the care we provide. Our palliative care services, grief support, and educational outreach are all offered free of charge, thanks to the community members who believe in our mission and show up—time and time again—through events, sponsorships, and donations.


More Than Money

Fundraising is about more than raising dollars. It’s about creating awareness, building relationships, and inviting people to walk alongside us. Events like the Clay Shoot, and our Release & Remember bring people together not just to support Friends of Caroline, but to experience our mission in action.


 I’ve watched someone attend their first fundraiser in memory of a loved one and become a dedicated volunteer the following year. I’ve seen corporate sponsors turn into long-term partners who support us well beyond the event itself. These moments remind me that fundraising is truly where community meets compassion.


 The Power of Participation

Every fundraiser also helps us grow stronger and more sustainable. The funds we raise are flexible, which means we can respond to needs in real time. Whether it’s helping a family through a medical crisis or expanding our bereavement services for children, your contributions give us the ability to say “yes” when it matters most.


 And none of this happens without people. Our staff, board members, volunteers, and donors all play a role in planning and executing these events. Fundraising strengthens our internal culture just as much as it supports our programs—it brings us together with a shared purpose and shared pride.

 

Walking This Journey Together

Friends of Caroline exists because this community believes in comfort, dignity, and care for all—especially during life’s most vulnerable moments. As someone who works behind the scenes to help make this mission possible, I want to thank you. Whether you’ve bought a ticket, shared our events, volunteered your time, or made a donation—you are part of this story.


Fundraising isn’t just something we do. It’s how we honor our commitment to be there for every patient and every family, without hesitation and without barrier.


Together, we’re not just raising money. We’re raising hope.


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For more information on ways to support Friends of Caroline and the work that we do, please click here.

What it's like to be a Hospice CNA

By Sharonda Clark • June 13, 2025
One of my favorite quotes is from the great Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.: "If you can't fly, then run. If you can't run, then walk. If you can't walk, then crawl. But whatever you do, keep moving forward." My name is Shoranda Clark, and this powerful quote has helped me get through some difficult moments in my career. I've been a hospice-certified nursing assistant for 29 years—21 years actively working as a CNA and eight years in an administrative role, all with Friends of Caroline. You might be wondering how someone can stay in this field for so long. In the beginning, besides a lot of crying and prayer, I came to recognize that this work is my calling. Some may find it depressing, but I find it deeply rewarding. It was especially challenging at the start of my career, particularly after losing my first patient. But over time, I realized that my patients were giving me something as meaningful as the care I gave them. Working with terminally ill patients helped put some perspective in my life because they shared their regrets and the things they wished they had done differently; Hearing their stories helped me appreciate my own life so much more. I would go home and hug my loved ones, telling them how much I love and appreciate them. Through this work, I became a better mom and wife. I've learned to live life with no regrets, and I'm truly grateful for each day God gives me. It is a blessing to be chosen to provide physical and emotional care to someone at the end of life. I once had a patient who refused to let her family bathe her. Several of my fellow CNAs tried, but she still declined. She went almost two months without bathing. When it was my turn to visit her, we simply talked. I learned that Yahtzee was her favorite game. So, I made a deal with her: after her bed bath, we'd play a game of Yahtzee. She agreed. That became our morning ritual—a bed bath, a cup of cappuccino, and a game of Yahtzee. Week after week, we had so much fun. As her health declined and she could no longer roll the dice, I rolled them for her. We kept playing because it brought her joy. We continued this routine until her last week. I truly believe this small gesture brought light into her life. She looked forward to it, and I'm grateful I could help comfort her and her family. Not every case is like that one. Sometimes, the dying process is difficult to witness, so knowing when to take time for yourself is important. Having a healthy work-life balance is essential. Over the years, I've worked with some amazing CNAs who are passionate about their work. One of my fellow CNAs once volunteered to help a patient pull weeds from her garden—not part of her job, but she did it because the patient loved her garden. When you love what you do, it's easy to provide compassionate, hands-on care and emotional support, all while enhancing a patient's quality of life. I could tell you countless stories about how extraordinary hospice CNAs are. But great patient care takes more than just individual effort—it takes a team. Our team includes a skilled medical director, nurse practitioners, nurses, a social worker, a chaplain, and volunteers. CNAs often spend the most time with the patient, and we work closely with nurses to act as a bridge between patients, families, and the care team, ensuring everyone is aligned on the patient's needs. It's heartwarming when someone stops to thank you after learning you work in hospice. Some may view our work as sad or depressing, but I see it differently. I believe it's an honor to help someone cross over with dignity. In 29 years, I've learned so much through each case, and I often share those lessons with my fellow CNAs. If I had the chance to change anything about my career, I wouldn't. Serving our community has been both an honor and a privilege, and I look forward to the next chapter with our amazing team at Friends of Caroline.

What It's Like to be a Hospice Nurse

By Suzi Oliver, RN • May 16, 2025
National Nurses Week 2025 is celebrated from May 6th to May 12th. This week-long celebration recognizes and honors the contributions of nurses, who are the heart and soul of healthcare. It also serves as a time for appreciation, support, and recognition of nurses' dedication and commitment to patient care. As a recognition to our nurses, we asked a long time Hospice Nurse for a day in the life describing how valuable our nurses are.

The Importance of Advance Care Planning

By LaNelle Fabian • April 11, 2025
National Healthcare Decision Day is April 16. We encourage you to take the time to review and update your Advance Directives and if you don’t have any in place we recommend Five Wishes as a tool to aid in the process.

Caring for the Caregiver: Recognizing and Addressing Caregiver Fatigue

By Rachel Cox, LMSW • March 27, 2025
Caregiving is a profound expression of love and commitment, but it can also be physically and emotionally draining. Those caring for a loved one with a serious illness often find themselves juggling multiple responsibilities, neglecting their own well-being in the process. Over time, this can lead to caregiver fatigue—an overwhelming state of exhaustion that affects both mental and physical health. Recognizing Caregiver Fatigue Caregiver fatigue, also referred to as burnout, results from prolonged stress and emotional strain. Common symptoms include: Persistent physical exhaustion despite rest Emotional distress, anxiety, or hopelessness Increased irritability or frustration Difficulty concentrating or making decisions Sleep disturbances Withdrawal from social interactions Feelings of guilt or inadequacy Left unchecked, these symptoms can impact not only the caregiver’s well-being but also their ability to provide quality care to their loved one. It is essential for caregivers to recognize these signs early and seek support before fatigue leads to more severe health complications. The Importance of Respite Care Respite care is a crucial service that offers temporary relief to caregivers, allowing them time to rest and recharge while ensuring their loved one receives quality care. At Friends of Caroline, we recognize the immense dedication of caregivers and the importance of providing them with the support they need. Caroline’s Cottage, our inpatient hospice facility, offers respite care designed to give caregivers a well-deserved break without worry. How Caroline’s Cottage Supports Caregivers Caroline’s Cottage provides short-term stays for hospice patients, allowing their caregivers time to focus on their own well-being. These respite stays offer caregivers an opportunity to: Take a break from caregiving duties Attend to personal and professional commitments Engage in self-care and relaxation Prevent burnout and maintain overall health While at Caroline’s Cottage, patients receive round-the-clock compassionate care from our experienced team. Caregivers can step away with confidence, knowing their loved ones are in a safe, comfortable, and supportive environment. Taking Care of Yourself Caring for others begins with self-care. Taking breaks is not an act of selfishness; it is an essential part of sustaining the ability to provide loving and effective care. If you or someone you know is experiencing caregiver fatigue, consider exploring respite care options. For more information on respite care at Caroline’s Cottage, contact Friends of Caroline today. Let us support you as you continue to provide the best possible care for your loved one.